http://www.urdumped.co.ukAgony Aunt Advicehttp://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=333Hi I met this girl on match.com we went out for about a monthi thought everything was fine when she dumped me for the usual reason i\'m to nice.that was nine months ago. And just the other day she e-mailed my sister to contact mewhich my sister did. My ex is saying now she was hung up on the bad boy thingand that she did\'nt like her self last yearand noew she wants to meet for a drink. What do i do Please help Markhttp://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=332Im a 23 yr old female. 3 yrs ago my partner and i split up but we got back together 5 mths ago. We love each other but we have a problem or rather i do. I have a very low libido. When we were together before there wasn\'t a problem. We were at it all the time. My libido problem\'s been going on for almost 3 yrs. My partner has a very high sex drive and is always thinking about sex. We both wish we had sex more but im just not interested in it. I was on the pill for about 8 yrs (bar the time of being pregnant) but i came of it about 4 mths ago. We both very much enjoy sex when we have it but its the getting to it i have the problem with. I have a 2 yr old son who\'s an angel most of the time. Both he and my partner adore each other and he\'s taken on the role of dad to my son as his real dad doesn\'t want to know. In the 3 yrs that we weren\'t together we both went through alot. We both want things to be like they used to be but this is holding us back. Because of that i\'m finding it hard to open up with him where i didnt before. It\'s really getting to both of us and neither of us know what to. I could really do with an objective \'outside\' view on what we can do to sort this out as i really dont want to lose him a second time. http://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=331me and my partner have been together for around two years we live together and i really do love him. over the past 6 months though he has become ingreasingly deppressed he has dabled with drugs and has lost his job. Since that period he has stablized and is now on anti depressents but he still has no job. At first i didnt mind but now i dont think he is even looking for work and the bills are piling up.Its like he expects me to work all day then come home paye the bills and do all the house worl while taking on other responsibilities such as paying off debts ect.... I am finding it really hard to cope and just dont know what to do anymore. How can i motivate him into looking for work without running myself into the ground in the processhttp://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=330Hi I split up with my boyfriend a while ago after wrong doing on both sides. We decided to be friends which was great for a long time but then he\'d get drunk and txt or call me and ask me back saying that he was still IN love with me I\'d say yes (as I\'m still in love with him) but then nothing would be mentioned the next day and he\'d avoid the question at all costs! That stopped once I told him to as it was screwing me up but it\'s up started again! I don\'t feel that I can cut off all contact with him but I can\'t move on and the longer this goes on the more and more I loath myself and feel totally inadequate as anyone\'s potential boyfriend!! I used to be so confidant and outgoing but I\'ve turned into someone I don\'t recognise and don\'t much like! Even with the fantastic network of close friend I have I\'ve never felt as lonely and vile about myself as I do right now! I just don\'t know what to do or where to turn!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Alex.http://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=329 hi my ex finished me a month ago after been together 2 and half year. He never gave me a reason to finish and everytime i try to ask him he says he got to much t sort out. I still love him loads and keep crying about him. I just wish i knew what went wrong. He seems like he doesnt care. Ive told him that i still love him and asked him if in the future we could get back together his reply was i duno i dont think so but i dont know. I reali dont know what to do i love him loads i feel i cant live without him he was my rock please help. http://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=328You have some great products. http://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=327I am 16 years old and i have been with my girlfriend nearly 8 months now. i am still a virgin and 4 months ago we both wanted to have sex. but everytime we get in the mood and i get hard it all goes flop when she shows me a condom. i don\'t know why i go flacid when she shows me a condom but it leaves her dissapointed and unsatisfied. i don\'t want to lose her and i don\'t want to have sex without a condom. am i afraid of them? how can i stay turned on when a condom comes into play? please helphttp://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=326I use veet in shower hair removal cream and have been using it for some time but latley i have been having sex so been shaving using a razor down below. Now after i do that i get lots and lots of spots all over and becomes realli irritating and itchy. what can i do to stop this?http://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=325Well...Where to start! I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now we are both 16. We haven\'t had sex and he really respects me he is really good looking and in all aspects he is perfect. We used to have such a laugh together but recently my feelings towards him have changed. I still really like him but i don\'t think i love him anymore. I tried to explain to him but he got quite upset and told me he still loved me and begged me to try to make things work again. The thing is i have liked another boy for a good while now and he has told me he likes me too. We kissed not long ago i feel quite guilty but to be honest it felt right at the time and i really like him...the problem is i know my boyfriend really loves me and the last thing i want to do is hurt him but i can\'t stop thinking about this other boy i don\'t want to do anything i will regret but i need advice as i am going insane thinking about it!Please help me.http://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=324Please thank the Entire team http://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=323well..i always said that i would never be able to cheat on someone i was with. but i have done. i have been with my boyfriend for awhile now and i know i love him. but i don\'t know what came over me. i slept with someone behind his back and now all i can feel is guilt. i know if i told him he will finish with me for good and that is the last thing that i want. i also don\'t think there is anyway he could find out. i was just hoping that you could give me some advice on whether not telling him is the right thing to do. after haing done what i did i would never put myself in the same situation again it had made me realise just how very much i do love my boyfriend. but he would never understand that and he would probably never want to talk to me again. can you help?http://www.urdumped.co.uk/agony_aunt.php?prob=322i have beem meeting a guy for 7 weeks now i am 17 he is 23 he recently asked me to be his girlfriend so i said yes and i was thrilled. but just 2 days ago he told me that he wants to be single and that he has got out of a 2 year realtionship too quick which i understand but i have fell in love with him and i am so upset that he wants to be single i hav\'t eaten for 3 days i can never get myself out of bed i can\'t sleep i just feel so fed up and depressed i am constantly crying i don\'t no what to do i can\'t see myself with another man i don\'t want to forget about him but i just miss seeing him an txting him before i go to bed or when i wake up in the morning. I have told him that he can have all the time he wants to himself but i just want to know if when the time is right for him he will come back to me beacuse i don\'t think i could take it if he didnt\'t please help me before i do something stupid i really miss him :( thanks